Too much familiarity breeds contempt?

Happen to read this  somewhere “Too much familiarity breeds contempt”?? Does this phrase stands true for all relations? Oh my...I don't want to be a pain in the ass to anyone after all these years😅 Any relationship needs some space ..whenever the line crossed there arise all the problems. Ego and Attitude sans life can evolve ourselves with integrity and honesty which holds the main criteria for a happy life whether its with your  parents , siblings , friends ,spouse , kids ,lovers and whoever comes in acquaintance with you in your life. Let me try to put my few cents on that phrase..!

I have seen some beautiful marital relationships a failure that too within few years of togetherness. People once who were in head over heels on love with each other turns a hate monger at the drop of hat. As a saying goes "All romances goes through the window after three months after marriage" stands true?? Is it really that hard to keep a relationship in love? Is it due to the over adaptability once you start living under one roof?? Is it not too obvious that one would yearn for the warmth of their beloved? No I am not talking about the physical needs..it will be there for sure but the need to feel the feelings and want to want you back is obviously needed. Why this breeds contempt? What should we need to do to sustain our relationship in an unkempt manner? Well too much of non communicating also spoils isn't it? Whatever be the matter the proximity should be maintained until unless the person who wants to seriously put an end to the relationship. Simple but its so complicated too..!!

* Well one must stay away from them err ignore them totally if decided to pull off the relationship..Possible??  

                                          Or                                          

* The more your mind says to stay away and your self pride makes you to show some attitude the more your heart whispers to give them some more time to recognize your Love...Never give up attitude?

Well we need to choose wisely.The most powerful in all relationship is love and those were in love keep that in mind because every love need sacrifice and love always be the most important things in whole world. Always love yourself first so that we can love and respect others too.

 Isn't it wonderful if you have a genuine bunch of people who loves you just the way you are ? Isn't it wonderful that you have one who expects nothing other than your presence? Is it too much to ask for their attention even in their middle of the chaos?? All we need is just an assurance that come what may in life we stand together with much courage and take forward in the journey called Life. After all we are humans and we need to express ourselves in a manner to show our mutual dependence. A family where they express themselves without any inhibitions or judgement are the happy family. 

Anyways Love is not to be possessed. It's not that one should always hold hands and talk sweet nothing's but just showing them your presence holds something special which is enough..it's more than enough if one's love is genuine. Yeah it's a blessings if one is be love and to be loved. None can wither the tree if the root is so strong. Likewise if your love is deep rooted nothing will separate the souls guided by the supreme power called God. 

To sum it up I believe not the familiarity kills but the Ego kills..!! To maintain a healthy relationship we need to  go in a silent mode at times when there is gonna be a heated argument. As someone said " In silence you are mine only mine even you cannot take you away from me". Need to retrospect all those good memories. Sort out any indifference amicably without much Ego. A good communication is the best key. Well in my last article I insisted on Silence but here Communication..both are needed very much needed. Pause and react is the mantra we need to follow..!! Well it's easily said than done but we need to seriously try this and impose it on our life. Let this Love be real and genuine and let it grow infinity ❣️❣️