Seeker!!

I am neither a religious nor a spiritual person..maybe certain awful incidents in my life made me not get into these way of life. In fact I don't even offer any prayers. Being born in an orthodox Tambhram family I do have to do regular festivities but I just do it .That's all . Never asked for anything. Just go with the flow..not very much stressed out on anything life had thrown me so far. Whatever it is we need to face it on our own. No one is going to bear your pain and sufferings. This is how I was ...reading books,listening to music...the one's we have to hear when you are living with teeny weeny kids..!! When good souls of my genre are reading philosophy and other Godly things, I dance for a petta rap with my grandson😜 Well this me in me changed by me 😂😂 For good?? Don't know.. I am yet to reach a far far place to get the good sense and maturity.. I am still in a toddler phase..!! "Tadviddhi Pranipatena Pariprashnena Sevaya, Upadekshyanti Te Jnanam Jnanin

Happen to read this  somewhere “Too much familiarity breeds contempt”?? Does this phrase stands true for all relations? Oh my...I don't want to be a pain in the ass to anyone after all these years😅 Any relationship needs some space ..whenever the line crossed there arise all the problems. Ego and Attitude sans life can evolve ourselves with integrity and honesty which holds the main criteria for a happy life whether its with your  parents , siblings , friends ,spouse , kids ,lovers and whoever comes in acquaintance with you in your life. Let me try to put my few cents on that phrase..! I have seen some beautiful marital relationships a failure that too within few years of togetherness. People once who were in head over heels on love with each other turns a hate monger at the drop of hat. As a saying goes "All romances goes through the window after three months after marriage" stands true?? Is it really that hard to keep a relationship in love? Is it due to the over adapt